Deep Rest: What It Is and Why Our Nervous System Craves It
When you think of “rest,” you may picture sleep, naps, or lying on the couch. But there is a deeper, more potent form of rest, something more than just downtime. I call this Deep Rest: a state where your nervous system is given permission to downregulate, in which your body’s innate healing begins, and your inner resilience is restored.
In the rush and bustle of modern life, our nervous systems are continuously on alert. There is no longer a clear “on/off switch” between stress and calm- just a constant simmer of being in a slightly heightened state. Deep Rest gives you back that switch into parasympathetic mode (which allows rest, digestion and healing to happen).
The Science of Deep Rest: Healing at the Cellular Level
Recent research regarding contemplative practices such as meditation, gentle movement, breathwork, or somatic awareness points to a powerful phenomenon: during Deep Rest, the body shifts from a stress-driven state towards regeneration mode.
When we enter Deep Rest, our nervous system moves out of “fight-or-flight” (sympathetic system) into “rest, digest and repair” (parasympathetic system). The heart rate slows, breathing becomes rhythmic, and muscles relax.
This shift allows the body to redirect energetic resources from stress management toward cellular repair and optimization, giving the body a chance to rebuild, restore, and rejuvenate.
On a psychological level, resting in a safe, calm space quiets threat-based mental activity, reducing inner chatter and promoting a sense of ease and contentment. This may feel like a sense of return to yourself.
In short: Deep Rest is not laziness or indulgence. It is a strategic, biologically essential reset, a reconnection with the body’s innate wisdom of healing and regeneration.
Why we need Deep Rest, especially now:
1. Chronic Stress Overloads the Nervous System
In our modern world, stress is often constant. Work demands, digital stimulation, social pressures, they all keep the sympathetic nervous system engaged long after the “threat” has passed. Over time, this chronic activation drains our reserves, leaving us exhausted, anxious, emotionally reactive, and physically depleted.
Without intentional downregulation, the body never fully repairs or resets. Daily life becomes about coping and surviving, not thriving.
2. Deep Rest rebuilds resilience, both inside and out
When we allow the nervous system to reset and recharge through Deep Rest, the benefits have a cascade effect:
Emotional balance improves- with the outcome of less reactivity, more stability, and a clearer mind.
Physical systems- digestion, immune function, hormonal regulation have better ability to recalibrate.
Cellular repair and energetic balance get a boost: our body can direct energy towards healing rather than constant survival mode.
Over time, we regain sensitivity, awareness, and capacity to respond, rather than react to life’s stressors.
In a culture that glorifies productivity, hustle, and constant doing, Deep Rest almost becomes a radical act of self-care and preservation!
3. Deep Rest supports integration, healing & transformation
For anyone doing inner work like trauma healing, or somatic therapy, Deep Rest offers a safe space for it to occur. It gives the body and mind a chance to process, integrate, and reorganize. The effect is that unresolved stress, tension patterns, and emotional charge may soften. The nervous system learns new strategies; becoming calmer, more flexible and more responsive.
Deep Rest is where healing happens on the level of body, mind, and spirit.
How to Access Deep Rest: Practices to Down-Regulate & Reconnect
Here are some ways to provide Deep Rest to support nervous system regulation and inner renewal:
Gentle breathwork/rhythmic breathing- soft inhales, breathing into the belly, with slow, long exhales. This simple act signals to your body it’s safe to relax.
Guided contemplative practices such as lying-down meditation “yoga-nidra/non-sleep-deep-rest (NSDR)” style, body-scan, gentle stretches and restorative yoga. These allow you to rest while remaining gently aware of bodily sensations.
Mindful stillness and presence- quiet moments in nature, soft music, grounding (bare feet on earth, gentle touch), sensory connection (smell, sound, texture), and rituals that soothe the soul.
Holistic bodycare-gentle touch therapies (conscious bodywork), structural care (Network Spinal technique), movement that honors the body (like slow yoga or restorative stretching), and nourishing rest that respects the nervous system’s need for safety and integration.
The goal isn’t to create more “to-do’s” in the name of wellness. It is to make space for “undoing.” To unwind and remember that stillness, presence, and safety are all big components of healing.
Deep Rest as an essential to health and nervous system regulation:
I believe Deep Rest is essential for wellbeing. In the winter season, Mother Nature cues us to go into a deeper silence and calm. It feels even more relevant now as the world stage goes through its many shifts and collectively affects our systems. Just as we need nourishment, movement, and connection, we also require deep restorative rest so our nervous systems can reset and recalibrate.
In a world that moves fast and asks a lot from us, Deep Rest becomes our anchor. It is how we come back home to ourselves. If you feel chronic stress, exhaustion, reactivity, burnout or simply a sense of “not being yourself,” perhaps it’s your nervous system crying out for some real Deep Rest. It is how we reconnect with our bodies and reclaim our capacity to respond, not react. So go ahead and snuggle in those comfy sheets a bit longer, intentionally!
I invite you to give yourself permission for some Deep Rest. Quiet the mind, soften the breath, sink into safety. If you would like help with downregulating and relaxing your nervous system, this is the work I do everyday. I am here for you, simply reach out. Let the healing begin.
In kindness, gentleness, and care,
Dr. Anita Rajan